News: Getting to the Points
by Sea Siren on June 13th, 2008
slut n. A person, especially a woman, considered sexually promiscuous. According to the dictionary, yes.
by Chezter is going to save the Redheads on June 13th, 2008
Sure. Does it make you a bad person? Nah. However the main drawback to being sexually promiscuous is that it comes with a reputation that will pretty much guarantee you continue having sex whenever you want, but you are less likely to land a guy who is interested in you for anything else.
In our caste girls start earning good money from age 11 onwards by sleeping with 15-20 men per day.
by radhabarwali on May 3rd, 2009
"In our caste girls start earning good money from age 11 onwards by sleeping with 15-20 men per day."
WHAT!? :-o Whose case?
by Melanie22 on September 6th, 2009
Not sure if that's a typo actually. Caste could be like our "class". I could be mistaken. I would guess Cambodia, or in that region, that's happening in alarming regularity there
by Chezter is going to save the Redheads on September 6th, 2009
It's "case". Read her answers and questions. I've been tempted today to call the police...
She's not been on ab since May but still.
by Melanie22 on September 6th, 2009
Eh, prolly just a troll then
by Chezter is going to save the Redheads on September 6th, 2009
Guessin by her name its Indian and going by religious mythology Hindu, so she probably did mean caste and is trollin.
by LePoupon is not very helpful on December 9th, 2009
by killdrphil on June 16th, 2008
If you keep up that pace, you're certainly very promiscuous. That's over 180 guys in three years time.
hey, you didn't ask for her phone number....
by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on June 16th, 2008
I'm guessing she's all booked up.
by killdrphil on June 17th, 2008
Good one.
by AnonymousGirl on January 12th, 2009
It's because I went that extra mile and did a little math.
by killdrphil on January 12th, 2009
Yummy!!!!! Divorce almost final, where do I sighn up?
by AH7 on September 13th, 2009
my divorce is nearly final as well but no thanks.
by TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT on November 5th, 2009
by purplecows on June 13th, 2008
to them, yes.
to all the other guys, it makes you a bitch.
;)
That is one of my most very favorite jokes!!! Sadly I've had to tell this woman friend of mine, whom I've spent a ton of time with, who continually tells me of all her sexual exploits in great detail, and who knows that I find her to be one of the most wildly attractive women I've ever met. She asked me once if I thought she was a slut I said no, .... you are a bitch!!!!!
by vampire on October 14th, 2009
by michael on June 13th, 2008
well i would have to say yes u dont just go have sex i mean honestly control urself
I agree +
by Gold_Autumn on June 13th, 2008
Spoken by the two who aspire to be real life examples of one of the funniest movies to come out ober the last 10 years. The main character in the film happened to be 40 years old..... any guesses?
by vampire on October 14th, 2009
vamp... not everyone wants to be a slut. some people not only shun the sleep with everyone culture, but also shun the wait till near retirement for marriage culture. I passed up several opportunities which dropped into my lap and were it not for my son (who I have sole custody of) I would regret the only opportunity I didn't pass up.
by TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT on November 22nd, 2009
by devil is back on June 13th, 2008
it depends what you do during sleep, lol
just kidding. actually i think that if you are honest and fair with all 3 guys, you are not a slut, if you cheat on them, you are a slut.
I cant see three guys, being okay with the others, LOL.
by Sea Siren on June 13th, 2008
really? i think i would be able to find three pretty easy, actually i need only 2, lol
by devil is back on June 13th, 2008
Where????
by Anonymous on June 16th, 2008
*c'mon guys we have two hot party girls here*
*HEY, I SAID 2! NOT 200!!!*
by devil is back on June 17th, 2008
You are so funny!!!!!
by Anonymous on June 17th, 2008
thank you Sweet T, that's a great compliment
*blushes*
by devil is back on June 17th, 2008
Aww, your so cute when your blushing, hehehe......
by Anonymous on June 17th, 2008
*flattered and blushing more and more*
your rubbing your genius, you have 3 desires...
by devil is back on June 17th, 2008
*flattered and blushing more and more*
your rubbing your genius, you have 3 desires...
by devil is back on June 17th, 2008
But she's not really cheating, if there isn't any committed relationship with any of the guys, is there, I shouldn't think so.
by Hotchik on September 9th, 2009
But aren't you already cheating on each of them if you are sleeping with all of them?, and aren't you already a slut if you are sleeping with any of them and not in a committed relationship with that one, oohhh I think my head hurts.
by Hotchik on September 9th, 2009
by Halskiisaklink on June 13th, 2008
It makes you a sexually confident human being. Seriously, we would all benefit if the word slut was never used again.
so that's the new PC term?
by purplecows on June 13th, 2008
What?
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 13th, 2008
We don't need a 'PC' term. Women shouldn't be criticised for enjoying having sex with multiple partners.
by Halskiisaklink on June 13th, 2008
I agree, Rudeboy.
Derogatory terms for people are cruel.
Your name does not fit your answer! :D
(but I don't think having multiple partners is a good idea for girls.)
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Purplecows: I think "Free-Spirited" is the PC term, not sure.
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 16th, 2008
VS Angel -- why do you think it's a bad idea for girls to have multiple partners?
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 16th, 2008
There are many reasons.
*Her reputation will be trashed (even though a man who did the same thing would be a hero).
*Due to our biology we are more prone to STDs.
*Pregnancy DOES happen with casual partners (it may be argued that men pay also...but it's the woman that has to drastically change her life). There is a girl on Maury Povich (spelling?) that has been searching for the father of her baby. She has accused like 20 guys and still didn't know (I work, so I never get a chance to watch--she may have finally found the daddy).
*Few women are casual about sex (most want a commitment). Yes, even the ones who tell you they don't need one.
*Women usually have regrets when they engage in the above referenced scenario...not only because others lose respect for them, but that they lose respect for themselves.
I believe people are free to make their own choices, but unfortunately there are some devastating consequences to women who have many partners.
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 16th, 2008
I totally agree with Angel. As a guy, I may have had a good one stand with a girl like this when I was younger. However, the idea of a serious relationship with her wouldn't even enter my mind.
by Anonymous on June 16th, 2008
That's exactly true.
Men view women who do this as untrustworthy and don't consider them as someone they would want to spend their lives with.
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How are you?
I missed you today.
How was training and Father's Day?
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 16th, 2008
I just got done training. Going to dinner in a little bit. The wife is still working.
by Anonymous on June 16th, 2008
That will be nice! :D
Check out my Profile Page.
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 16th, 2008
It is awesome.
by Anonymous on June 16th, 2008
There's nothing inherent in men or women that makes them think this way, who cares if a bunch of dicks judge you.
by Halskiisaklink on June 16th, 2008
*Fuck reputation, it's made up by dicks, usually.
*There's this lovely thing, we call it condoms...
*Once again... condoms/pill/getting your tubes tied helps with that.
*That's just BS -- you must not know many women
*I don't see why it would make them lose respect for themselves, and anyone who'd lose it for them would be a closed-minded asshole in my world
Those men are hypocrites.
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 16th, 2008
Oh, and hello, Dylan -- any Milo yet? :P
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 16th, 2008
Indigo, NO ONE TALKS TO ME LIKE THAT.....EVER.
I do hope you get a thesaurus.
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I see that you know more about womens feelings/emotions than I do.
(It's painfully obvious by your intelligent response.)
:D
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 16th, 2008
I didn't call YOU and asshole, or a dick, or any of those things. If I offended you, I'm sorry, but my points stand.
(Yes, I am intelligent, thank you.)
:D
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 16th, 2008
You're welcome.
(I don't use foul language, and I don't like to hear it, ever...sorry.)
I agreed with you about the attitudes of judgmental people--but unfortunately that's the reality. I see many women who have been involved this way and there is a backlash for them.
Plus, condoms have a 15% fail rate for pregnancy, that leads me to believe they are not all that reliable for STD prevention.
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 16th, 2008
(That's alright.)
Hmm, I've heard it's less. I believe that perhaps with the right kind of sex ed, medicine, and time this might improve -- at least I hope so.
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 16th, 2008
What's alright?
I hope for things to improve also! :D
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 16th, 2008
Just be careful.
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 16th, 2008
I don't have multiple partners at the moment, but thanks. :P
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 17th, 2008
LOL...that's not what I meant.
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 17th, 2008
Not yet, Maria, but I'm sure it's coming.
by Halskiisaklink on June 17th, 2008
VS Angel, don't waste your time on this one. These guys are idiots.
by Anonymous on June 17th, 2008
How was your night?
:D
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 17th, 2008
Why are we idiots exactly?
by Halskiisaklink on June 17th, 2008
If I was an idiot, my screen name would be "mans man". :)
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 17th, 2008
Wow...clever!
(not really, I'm being sarcastic.)
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 17th, 2008
So is Indigo, but she did it better than you.
by Halskiisaklink on June 17th, 2008
Oh, I'm so sorry, I should have said, "Yes mans man, we're so sorry you consider us lowly, how could we ever make you like us more? Shall I make you a nice cuppa tea with crumpets?"
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 17th, 2008
Now, that's better.
:D
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 17th, 2008
All YOU have left to do is change his diapers and kiss his ass.
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 17th, 2008
When I'm done washing YOUR mouth out with soap!
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Hugs! :D
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 17th, 2008
No, sorry, I don't like lye poisoning.
Thank you?
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 17th, 2008
um...okay.
:D
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 17th, 2008
Wouldn't you hugging him give him licence to call you a slut?
by Halskiisaklink on June 17th, 2008
(((HUGS FOR MANS MAN)))
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I don't know...let's see.
:D
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 17th, 2008
VS Angel is too much of a lady to say it, so I will. 3 guys in 2 weeks makes her a SLUT. There are no two ways about it. You guys should be ashamed of how you talked in front of a lady. You're lucky you are behind computer screens, otherwise I would be kicking some serious ass about now. Knight of Louisburg would too. Now VS Angel, please get away from this thread. This is beneath you.
by Anonymous on June 17th, 2008
Thank you, Mans Man.
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I guess that answers your question, Rudeboy.
:D Toodles
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 17th, 2008
Yes, sexual promiscuity makes this man angry. *Ahem* rapist *ahem*
by Halskiisaklink on June 17th, 2008
I didn't know you were so brave that you kick women's asses, mans man -- truly a man's man, huh.
I especially love how you decide things for VS Angel. Very manly of you!
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 17th, 2008
What are you two like Stereo Types of man and women? Like we're back in the early 1900's?
- To Vs Angel and "Mans Man"
by Megaman-man COAT in my name on June 17th, 2008
At this time I will not even dignfy this stupidity with a response.
by Anonymous on June 17th, 2008
Indigo, you're a girl?
(I thought you were both guys, I'm sorry.)
I can see why Mans Man would have thought so as well.
I don't mean any disrespect to you and Rudeboy and I will try to remember that you are girls.
So, is that what you meant by "stereotypes of man and woman"?
That he and I are different from each other? (We are.)
Now ladies, this thread really needs to end.
It's a pointless waste of time and internet space.
FYI: There really IS a 15% fail rate (overall) for birth control with condoms.
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Kids your age sometimes think they are invincible and know everything (that's a dangerous attitude).
Stay safe, girls! :D
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by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 17th, 2008
Hehehe... oh yes, Rudeboy is very ladylike. And girly.
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 17th, 2008
Really?
I didn't see that she was ladylike, but I'm sure Rudeboy's very girly.
:D Take care of yourselves, girls.
I'm leaving this thread. :D
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 17th, 2008
No, I was being sarcastic. As far as I know, he's a guy.
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 17th, 2008
Oh...lol (my bad).
:D
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 17th, 2008
It's kinda conceited to assume there are more inherent differences between men and women beyond the physically obvious.
by Halskiisaklink on June 18th, 2008
Actually there are many differences.
On both a hormonal and chemical level, not just physical.
We are different both inside and out.
There are so many studies being done--very exciting stuff!
You might want to research them :D
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 18th, 2008
I have, but a lot of what is reported is described with an obvious social function in mind. This sort of nonsense has been going on for years - scientists would at one time release 'scientific' studies explaining why women should stay at home, citing such things as hormonal and chemical differences. Or at least they were reported as doing so.
by Halskiisaklink on June 18th, 2008
I believe every person should do what makes them happy.
I'm old-fashioned in most every way--but I have a career I just adore.
I know what you mean by the studies...sometimes the experiments are helped along (forced) to get a finding which appeases the corporation funding the experiment.
Keep reading--you will find some real scientists doing amazing things in this area!
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 18th, 2008
Why bother emphasising differences when that only increases inequality? I'd rather read studies that show just how similar men and women are.
by Halskiisaklink on June 18th, 2008
Can we stop this one please? It is going nowhere.
by Anonymous on June 18th, 2008
You think just because you're not contributing to something it's going nowhere?
by Halskiisaklink on June 18th, 2008
Pose a question abut it, Rudeboy.
Many people on AB will agree with you and D/R people like me.
My advice to you is to really dig through all the research in that area. You will realize that we are really different--not just in our appearance, but hormones and chemicals as well.
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WE ARE DIFFERENT EVEN AT THE CELLULAR LEVEL.
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I typed that big so it won't be overlooked.
I never want our genders to be the same--I like my bffs to be girly and I like the guys I date to be very masculine (Men).
I would hate a world where we are all the same.
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 18th, 2008
Everybody's different, and individual variation makes any gender-wide generalisation irrelevant beyond basic sexuality (and even that's hotly disputed).
by Halskiisaklink on June 18th, 2008
Dude, you don't even have a clue. VS Angel is totally right. Men and women are different and those differences are what make us great for each other. I think your intelligence is limited.
by Anonymous on June 18th, 2008
I disagree with you and that makes me stupid? Right...
Name an indisputable difference between men and women besides the obvious.
by Halskiisaklink on June 18th, 2008
It's true, we are different, Rudeboy.
Those are the types "studies" I was referring to.
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Take a look at who is funding these studies before just swallowing their "findings" as truth.
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If you wish to find others who agree with you--post a question about it on AB--you'll get lots of points, many people here agree that men and women are basically the same.
I can't go on about this anymore--I have to finish getting ready for work and we are only running around in circles with this.
Have a great day and keep researching.
:D
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 18th, 2008
An indisputible difference is hormonal.
I don't have time, so you'll have to look all of them up.
Start with dopamine and oxytocin, these are the chemicals which makes a woman bond after intimacy. (Men don't have that problem...lol)
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 18th, 2008
It's not just funding. A lot of biologists themselves undoubtedly operate under archaic social assumptions.
I've posted plenty of questions about this before, I know how AB works, I've been here since 2006. :P
So you don't think any men bond after intimacy?
by Halskiisaklink on June 18th, 2008
No, I'm not saying that.
I don't have time atm to get into what happens in utero to brain development.
maybe later...post a question.
I'm a newbie here.
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 18th, 2008
Infinite variation kinda makes it all redundant, though.
by Halskiisaklink on June 18th, 2008
Not really.
have a nice day! :D
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 18th, 2008
If you can't be screwed, just say so. You can go back to comment threads later, that's what they're designed for.
by Halskiisaklink on June 18th, 2008
What does "if you can't be screwed" mean?
If you want to learn more about this subject, do what I did, study it.
I am not a teacher...but I do have to finish getting ready for work and I want to finish talking to my friend on here.
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 18th, 2008
That was just classless. It was also cowardly hiding behind a computer. You would get your ass kicked in real life for saying that to her.
by Anonymous on June 18th, 2008
What does it mean?
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 18th, 2008
For saying "screwed"? She must live in a magical fairy tale country, then.
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 18th, 2008
In real life, if you kick someone's arse, more often than not the police will get involved.
by Halskiisaklink on June 18th, 2008
No, she is just a very classy lady. VS Angel you don't even want to know this. I am telling you, this is not worth your time.
by Anonymous on June 18th, 2008
Okay...I'm done with this thread.
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 18th, 2008
Well, in my world, being classy involves being able to defend yourself and handle any situation -- not being told to go away and let a man handle it for you who thinks you're like a fragile glass vase or something.
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 18th, 2008
Don't those men try to break women like fragile vases if they show any signs of wanting to be something else?
by Halskiisaklink on June 18th, 2008
I have seen it happen.
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 18th, 2008
I'm sure these two have as well.
by Halskiisaklink on June 18th, 2008
You what i find funny Angel and Manly man is that not once had Crudeboy called you anysort of name or denied your intelegence -
But here you two are acting like your shit doesnt stink.
by Megaman-man COAT in my name on June 18th, 2008
I think this may call for some intervention. :P
by Halskiisaklink on June 19th, 2008
You've jumped into a pool of it this time, Trotsky, but I agree with you.
by BAM@Cyberscrewed.tk on June 19th, 2008
Oh yes, thank you for clarifying that this is all my fault and I should keep my mouth closed. :P
by Halskiisaklink on June 19th, 2008
The pool looked really cooling from far away...
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 19th, 2008
Oh of course not, I've always enjoyed your input. Carry on.
by BAM@Cyberscrewed.tk on June 19th, 2008
Would you like your riding helmet?
by Halskiisaklink on June 19th, 2008
Pardon?
by BAM@Cyberscrewed.tk on June 19th, 2008
I do beg your pardon good sir, but your moustache simply will not do.
by Halskiisaklink on June 19th, 2008
@Knight of Louisburg: Your comment has been deleted as it was inappropriate per the AB TOU. There is no need to make threats and call people names. This is a warning.
@All: Chill :) Unsubscribe if you must.
by Andy Ninja Is Wicked Back To Work on June 19th, 2008
Thanks. :P
by Halskiisaklink on June 19th, 2008
You're welcome :)
by Andy Ninja Is Wicked Back To Work on June 19th, 2008
With all due respect Andy, I think Megaman and Rudeboy should be tossed in the box now. VS Angel is a lady and look at how they were talking to her. That is far more inappropriate than Knight Of Louisburg reacting the way any guy would if another guy talked that way about a girl he really liked. Also, look at Megaman's activity yesterday outside of this thread.
by Anonymous on June 19th, 2008
Oh yes, toss us vagabonds in the penalty box for speaking ill to the fair lady.
by Halskiisaklink on June 19th, 2008
I agree with Mans Man 110%.
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 19th, 2008
That extra 10% being a rendezvous in a dark alleyway and a quick escape?
by Halskiisaklink on June 19th, 2008
@mans man: Correction, I issued a warning to Knight of Louisburg. My BF surely does not come running to my aid when I disagree with other ABers--I can handle myself. VS Angel can choose to unsubscribe.. KOL clearly violated the TOU and community standards by making threats. Chivalry is not dead, but it can be alive and well without flaming people. In my experience, the man who can argue intelligently and tactfully is one that is truly chivalrous, but that's just me.
@All: Time to unsubscribe before everyone does end up in the PB for reals.
by Andy Ninja Is Wicked Back To Work on June 19th, 2008
Well whatever, their behavior was inappropriate and if the staff can't see that, I don't know what to say. Anyway Megaman needs to stop following myself and VS Angel around. Seriously look at his actions of yesterday.
by Anonymous on June 19th, 2008
One thing I do agree with is that it is time to get away from this thread. I wanted it done 2 days ago.
by Anonymous on June 19th, 2008
They simply disagreed and nobody threatened VS Angel or called her names. Again, THAT is the difference here. If it's not ok to say such things in front of a lady then KOL should have chosen his own words better perhaps. I'll look into the other issue as you wish.
by Andy Ninja Is Wicked Back To Work on June 19th, 2008
Thank you mans man, I appreciate your willingness to unsubscribe :)
by Andy Ninja Is Wicked Back To Work on June 19th, 2008
Thank you for looking into the other issue. However, I respectfully disagree when you say nobody called her names. The comment "Just because you can't be screwed" was very unclassy. Anyway have a good day.
by Anonymous on June 19th, 2008
Andy,
Mans Man, Knight of Louisburg and I have all been called names.
If you read through this thread and especially the other threads you will see it. It is even suggested on this thread that Mans Man is a rapist. Here's the latest insult from this thread:
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Avatar VS Angel Jun, 19 2008 at 09:50 AM
I agree with Mans Man 110%.
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Avatar Rudeboy Sakhalinskii Jun, 19 2008 at 09:53 AM
That extra 10% being a rendezvous in a dark alleyway and a quick escape?
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What exactly do you think he was implying?
I consider that a personal insult.
Please do read the entire thread and the many others.
Thanks for your time.
:D
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 19th, 2008
I didn't mean 'screwed' in the sexual sense, but whatever floats your boat. :P
by Halskiisaklink on June 19th, 2008
Last call folks--not one more comment. Un-sub-scribe. Please.
by Andy Ninja Is Wicked Back To Work on June 19th, 2008
Let's just be done with this and all you guys stop following us. Please let this end it.
by Anonymous on June 19th, 2008
Did I not say I would look into it? Did I also not say not one more comment? <deleted> to keep things from getting out of control again. Please folks, just UN-SUB-SCRIBE and leave each other alone.
by Andy Ninja Is Wicked Back To Work on June 19th, 2008
wow, i think this is a record long series of comments
by purplecows on June 20th, 2008
Not even close, I remember one that took well over four hours to read everything. It was ridiculous, but I cannot recall what it was over....
by BAM@Cyberscrewed.tk on June 20th, 2008
I say we would get greater benefit from wearing our lables with pride.
by TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT on August 9th, 2009
by TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT on July 17th, 2009
if you sleep with anyone who you are not in a relationship with that makes you a slut, male or female. saying I am "mean" or DRing me will not change that so either stop being a slut or accept your sluthood. pretenting you are not something which you are will never bring you happiness. if you want to sleep around do it and accept the appropriate lable with pride.
by Gold_Autumn on June 13th, 2008
I don't know your current situation or lifestyle so i can't judge whether that makes you a slut or not, but from a personal point of view i think sleeping with 3 men in just 2 weeks is very disgusting and disrespectful to yourself. You might be having a hard time in our life and lashing out this way, i hoe you can work things out and be a happier person, all the best.
OR maybe she just enjoys sex, I don't see how that's disgusting and disrespectful to herself.
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 13th, 2008
Personally, I was brought up by an older generation, i was brought up to believe that sex is a special thing you should keep between you and the person you are in love with, but that is just me. I think i was gracious with my answer, i didn't judge and i offered understanding as well as my opinion, which she was obviously after. I'm sorry but i don't appreciate your rudeness.
by Gold_Autumn on June 13th, 2008
You did judge -- you judged that she was sleeping with men because she was unhappy with herself -- and I don't see why that would be your automatic assumption. Enjoying sex certainly doesn't make someone disgusting or dirty, and I don't see how it's disrespectful to the body, either -- as long as she's using protection, it only does good for it.
How was I rude to you?
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 13th, 2008
If i posted a question saying "If i sleep with 3 different guys every night does that make me a slut" i'm certain you'd reply with yes when you replied to this question with no.
by Gold_Autumn on June 13th, 2008
Why?? I don't know anything about you-- maybe for you it's a healthy lifestyle -- I'm certainly not going to call a stranger a slut, especially when I don't know anything about them! All I know is that so far in life I've learned that different things suit different people -- some can only be comfortable with one partner, some are polyamorous, and some just have sex with random people and still lead a happy and healthy life. Just because I downrated you and disagreed with you doesn't mean I have a double standard for you or someone I don't agree with -- if right now you told me you like having orgies and have them every night, that would do nothing to change my opinion of you-- and I'd think that if that's what made you happy, then that's fine, as long as it doesn't harm anyone.
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 13th, 2008
If she has to ask this question then she's obviously having doubts or feelings of guilt, which indicates that it isn't a healthy lifestyle for her.
by Gold_Autumn on June 15th, 2008
Not necessarily -- it might be that someone called her a slut and this caused her to wonder what people in general think of her.
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 15th, 2008
your typo is funny...you typed hoe instead of hope...
by Anonymous on June 16th, 2008
@Billy - I noticed that too, thought i'd leave it for a laugh, lol!
by Gold_Autumn on June 16th, 2008
She just probally missed out the p by mistake!
by pagan-babe on October 1st, 2009
by Elliott36 on June 16th, 2008
hell no. actually poeple have said that you can only find happiness in sex, drugs and rock and roll. also i think chinese food should be in there... somewhere...
haha Good one
by Lissette on September 2nd, 2008
As long as you are not committed to anyone of them! Enjoy yourself!!! you only love once lol!!!!!
by AAA on July 9th, 2009
hahahhaha right on!!! im having black bean beef right now, YUUUUMM! :D
by Anna bannana on August 9th, 2009
well, we have different life's perception... but for me, she's a bitch doing such things....
by msuzuki on September 18th, 2009
by Supreme on July 6th, 2008
I think that a person, whether male or female, who sleeps around irresponsibly (i.e. unprotected, lying to their partners), is the true definition of a slut. There's no harm in being sexually free if you're responsible about it.
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 13th, 2008
No.
How dare you have an opinion and say no! Back up you go
by Chezter is going to save the Redheads on June 13th, 2008
lol, thanks :P
by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 13th, 2008
by whoami on September 5th, 2009
Now that makes you someone I would like to meet!LOL
It was a fucking joke!!!!! but it's is true!!! -5pts come on people have a sense of humour!!!!!!
by whoami on September 5th, 2009
I agree some people are WAY too serious, here you go hun +5 :)
by sjane23 on September 9th, 2009
funny answer +2
by anduga on September 10th, 2009
At least he's honest lol!
by sjane23 on September 10th, 2009
good humor, +6 fuck the trolls
by Wild One on September 18th, 2009
nice one, Wild One :)
by whoami on September 18th, 2009
by Asian Baby Girl on July 7th, 2009
If I were you I would worry more about getting a STD then being catoragized as a slut.
Lol! Good answer Asian Baby Girl. That shouldn't be her first worry! ++++++
by MRSHINYSHOES on July 7th, 2009
thanks lol and yeah it should be. there are some nasty std's out there.
by Asian Baby Girl on July 7th, 2009
by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on June 16th, 2008
nah, it makes you a nympho
by miRi hates social norms and regulations on June 13th, 2008
you'd certainly get that reputation
by maritimesapphire on October 3rd, 2009
you are quite nimble... in the sac... ok let me give a bit of advice: keep your knees together. No man will ever marry trash! You will be left on the floor with the a bunch of pizza boxes, dirty underwear, and beer cans.... forewarning of things to come!
by Hope on September 5th, 2009
yes it does.thats not the right thing to do..yes sex is good but you should not being going around sleeping with alot of different guys in so many different times of the week. its not healthy for you
by QuartzKitty on September 5th, 2009
No.
But even if so, so what? Own your sluttiness.
This world needs more women who are unashamed to be sexual.
If one of you losers is going to downrate me, at least have the courage to comment on it. Cowards.
by QuartzKitty on September 5th, 2009
well, not that I endorse sluttiness, but at least people should not rationalize their own behavior to the extent they are deceiving themselves.
My wife or wives can be as slutty to me as they want :)
by sprky777 on September 6th, 2009
I don't believe there is such a thing as sluttiness. Or, at least, it's not a negative thing.
I love sex, and I make no apologies for that. I think sex is probably the best thing in the world, and I feel I don't have enough of it.
The probably isn't how much sex you have, it's what KIND of sex. Random hookups with strangers, unsafe sex, one-night stands with people you don't know. That is not good behavior.
But, as long as you are responsible about it, you can have as much as you want with as many people as you want, as far as I am concerned, and I take no issue with it.
by QuartzKitty on September 6th, 2009
but could you be satisfied with one man if there were no limits to the amount of sex?
by sprky777 on September 6th, 2009
Man or woman.
Depends on the quality of the sex.
My longest relationship lasted a good three years. It was not an entirely monogamous relationship, though. Both of us got with other people on occasion.
I;m not entirely convinced monogamy works or is a natural concept for people.
by QuartzKitty on September 6th, 2009
We believe in polygyny.
That is one man with two or more women.
Of course, being Christians we believe in permanence of marriage and not having sex outside of marriage. My wife doesn't think she would like interaction with another woman, though I have no problem with it. I can't really ask her to 'try it, you might like it'. so it would be a FMF at least. but so far it is only hypothetical since we have not found a suitable second wife.
by sprky777 on September 6th, 2009
"Own your sluttiness"I want that on a t-shirt :) + a million if I could!!
by Wild One on September 18th, 2009
by youngeniusjake on August 9th, 2009
Yeah
3+ for you.
by Phoebe-Caulfield on August 9th, 2009
Why thank you
by youngeniusjake on August 9th, 2009
by lilmiss on July 8th, 2009
I wouldn't say that it makes you a slut but I would say that it sends a message to men that its not hard to get you in bed. I wouldn't use the word slut unless you were sleeping with three different men a day! However... I would like to ask you... do you want every guy you come across to think that you are "easy". Woman often wonder why men use and disrespect them... here's your answer... they let them.
as a guy i have acted this way when i was young. no one ever looked down on me or had negative things to say. so to do it to women is just wrong. i would not concider a woman who was having fun and expressing her sexual side a slut. but +2
by Evanfris25 on July 8th, 2009
Lol... thanks but I never said she was a slut or should be considered one. I used to be that way... what I learned was... if I didn't want people to look at me as being "easy" I shouldn't be "easy". Thank you for the +2
by lilmiss on July 8th, 2009
yw, i know you didnt call her one. i actually find your point very well spoken and valuable. when i was young i was stupid and would use words like whore and slut to women that practiced the same sexual freedom i did. i guess i am just tring to make up for that by sticking up for women who are wanting to explore that freedom. i was just saying that i didnt want anyone to look down on her. ummmm, nvm. ty. you are cool. i think you get my intention.!?!?
by Evanfris25 on July 9th, 2009
Yes I do. I'm glad that your willing to accept a woman for who she is and not how many men she is willing to sleep with. I never did understand how society said it was okay for men to have several partners but not okay for woman. When I asked someone one day all they could say is... "boys will be boys." So why can't girls be girls? We as woman have just as much interest in sex as men do. LOL. Thank you for sticking up for her and woman alike! You'r a pretty cool cat yourself. Have a good day!
by lilmiss on July 9th, 2009
Men will not be the mothers of the next generation.
If a woman has no higher moral value than that, I wouldn't want her to be the mother of my children.
This does not let men off the hook. The same standard applies to them. Only a dog sleeps around with multiple women.
by Sandman on August 1st, 2009
ahhh, see thats the great thing. you dont have to have her as the mother of your children. you can look for a woman who meets your old standard of whatever you think you are into. and you are right that does not let men off the hook, we are "dogs" too then.
now as far as higher morals, its a good thing you are not in charge of morals. we as humans are sexual beings. we crave and explore our sexual desires. you can say "If a woman has no higher moral value than that," but i would rather have a woman with experience and knows what she wants. rather than one who is not selfaware and does not know the suttble characteristics of a sexual being. if a person meets my standard of goals, education, intrests, and compatability then i am going to test drive to make sure we are sexually compatable as well.
(woof woof)
by Evanfris25 on August 2nd, 2009
Lol well said Evanfris25. +2
by lilmiss on August 3rd, 2009
by CatLover-The Original is Proudly Canadian on April 13th, 2009
I think you are well on your way to becoming one
by anddeb on April 13th, 2009
No it makes you immature as you are playing dangerously with your life and what you can catch from sleeping around so often. And that your hormones are really active.
by geshaa on April 10th, 2009
No, honey. It makes you a whore.
by Sandman on January 4th, 2009
Well, did you?
If you did, then yes it does.
I can't think of any other way to say it.
A girl who sluts around demeans all women.
It also shows that you have no self-respect, and you've made it harder for men to respect women in general.
======UPDATE========
But as I said before, sleeping around doesn't make a girl a slut; being a slut makes her sleep around.
by greenstone on June 18th, 2008
yes. if you dont want to be one, stop what your doing and have some self control. you will develope a reputaion as a slut and the only guys you will be able to get will only be interested in you for sex. There re alot of guys out there who are genuinely searching for a girl who has some self respect and to them, you are not it.
And if she had any self respect you've just brutaly murdered it
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on July 22nd, 2008
she asked..
by greenstone on August 11th, 2008
by Universe Of Life on June 16th, 2008
Who and how many you sleep with I believe is ...
no one elses business ... other than you and those involved ...
What is a major concern to others is ... that you act sensible and show all cautioun by taking neccessary protection in order to protect others ... that are indirectly or directly connected to you or those involved in your acts.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safe_sex
Take care ... use condoms!

by Deep Blue on June 16th, 2008
YES
by Sextherapist2002 on November 16th, 2009
As a sex therapist i have alot of woman with this same question and most of the time there is a deeper meaning on why you feel the need to have a loose sex life one big cause is that woman arent comfortable with themselves and they have sex to give them a sense of gratification i would look inside yourself and ask the question again and with time the answer will come
by have mercy love :( forgive me. on October 16th, 2009
Essentially, the word is not one from intelligent people. However, I would advise you stop that. If you are involved with 3 guys in 2 weeks, you should first ask yourself what you're doing this for. The reason I say this is because firstly it is unhealthy, it is unfair for the guys you are doing, and it isn't something you'd question if you were ok with it. So, if you don't care about it (which I doubt, otherwise you'd not ask this ;), then don't be guilty and just live your life. However seeing as how you do, just keep yourself under control, and make sure that every time you do it, you do it intentionally, and responsibly. And no, it is not acceptable for a male to not be held to these standards. It is just as morally questionable.
by xxnikkylawalxx on October 6th, 2009
No it doesn't make you a slut, and I hate that word for women. You're in your sexual prime. enjoy life just be safe.
by Chrissy on October 4th, 2009
I'd have to say "no" because if a man sleeps with 3 different girls in 2 weeks he is considered a "stud". Consider yourself a female "stud". ;)
by pagan-babe on October 1st, 2009
Difficult one i dont like the word slut!
If a man sleeps with numerous women hes not called names hes praised,makes me sick why if a woman does it shes a slut,some times things happen,i dont know your reasoning but im no one to judge and no one else is too!
A man who sleeps with numerous women is known as a dog, a slimeball, a scumbag, a son-of-a-bitch, a sleazy bastard, amongst other things.
There are other ways of naming a slut as well.
by Sandman on October 2nd, 2009
So judgemental, Sandman
by writemyselfaletter on October 3rd, 2009
If you're no one to judge, dear Pagan-babe, are you not a member of human society? It's your responsibility to judge, as it is of every human above the age of 12. If we do not judge the actions of others, we cannot judge our own actions. Absent judgments, one cannot have a moral centre.
It's our duty to render judgments daily, even hourly, throughout life.
by Sandman on October 3rd, 2009
No human is innocent except a baby!So we have all done things in our lifes that perhaps we should not have done,who am i to judge some one of what they choose to do,i really dislike name calling.
by pagan-babe on October 4th, 2009
Oh and to add i would so like to not be a member of human society.Animals are better than human beings!
by pagan-babe on October 4th, 2009
Well, it's true that few animals prey on their own species.
And Man is not the only animal to have a moral code; but he's the only one that breaks its own code.
by Sandman on October 4th, 2009
I know its horrible but then i surpose thats life for ya
by pagan-babe on October 5th, 2009
by livolivia on September 5th, 2009
heck yes it does slut
by RepubliCAN on September 5th, 2009
If I sleep with 3 different girls in two weeks, that makes me the luckiest guy on earth!
by boogysplit on September 5th, 2009
a guy would think so...why? because women are the catcher in the deal...you get what I mean? I dont wanna get gross about it, but... its kinda gross. so many guys in such a short time....a guy might as well take off his used condom, and pass it to the next guy in line and get it while the friction is still there. (sorry, had to go off the deep end there) but that is how many guys see that....its just gross.
by Randy on August 6th, 2009
Only if I'm not one of the 3 guys!
by Sarah M on May 27th, 2009
3 in two weeks? I have slept with 4 in my entire life, that's in 37 years.
I think times have changed.
by 007 plus Maverick equals Pure Awesome on May 26th, 2009
Nah girl, you're cool. F this double standard BS. You're not a slut, just as I'm not a slut. We're both just connoisseur's of sex. We like sex, and we like to have sex with different people. Variety is the spice of life. :)
by Nancy on April 10th, 2009
Yes; and I hope you are using birth control and protection from std's.
by cupcakexcutie on July 6th, 2008
idk.
i mean, my record is 3 in one week, and i didn't feel like a slut.
if you are being safe and taking care of yourself and you don't feel guilty, then no, i wouldn't think that would make you a slut.
by caffey4 on June 18th, 2008
Yeah pretty much, or cum-sponge, whichever you prefer
by Knight Of Louisburg on June 18th, 2008
Yes, you are a slut. Proud?
Youre a slut Louisburn
by Megaman-man COAT in my name on June 18th, 2008
Louis, will you send me nude photos of yourself performing stunts from jackass?
by Halskiisaklink on June 19th, 2008
by Rescuer Treesaw on June 16th, 2008
No I think it makes you more fun than some other girls!! BUT...please remember to ALWAYS practice safe sex
by Talimze wins the prize on June 16th, 2008
Maybe not a slut, but definitely fun-loving.
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 16th, 2008
You would probably have a bad reputation for it.
Your name is everything...you don't want to ruin your rep.
I would be more concerned as to WHY a girl would have multiple partners--there are many (emotional) reasons why some people behave like this.
I just hate that word.
I've heard more women use it than men...go figure!
by rage on June 13th, 2008
I DO NOT SEE ANY PROBLEM WITH THAT, BECAUSE MOST OF THE TIMES THESE OTHER ARE NOT DOING IT APPROPRIATELY AND MAYBE YOU NEED SOMEONE WHOSE GOING TO TAKE YOU OUT OF THIS WORLD. I WOULD DEFINITELY DO THAT IF MY MAN IS NOT PERFOMING UP TO STANDARD. YOU ARE NOT A SLUT BABY GIRL
by pantaloons on June 13th, 2008
matters who you are talking to
by jay92188 on December 1st, 2009
Having sex with 3 people in 2 weeks does not make you a slut. I wish men were held at the same high standard as women are. If a man did the same thing half the comments would have been congratulations. It is the new era, you can do whatever you want. Sex is a beautiful thing and just because you are having it with many partners does not mean you are a slut. Do you eat the same meal every day? NO... So why should it be a big deal if a a single woman wants to have a variety of sex partners. Everyone of them brings something new and interesting to the table. And as for the who std thing... Just because a person sleeps with more then one person does not mean they forget about protection. If anything they are usually better about having it, being prepared, and being smart and using it.
by Frosted Feminine on November 4th, 2009
Yes to ME ,,thats just my opinion :S sorry
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Comments
It's a derogatory term, this is just a moralistic opinion.
by Halskiisaklink on June 13th, 2008
It is derogatory, this is according to the dictionary. It is also a derogatory question.
by Sea Siren on June 13th, 2008
True, although no-one's using the all important word in their answers either.
by Halskiisaklink on June 13th, 2008
What would be the all important word?
by Sea Siren on June 14th, 2008
That one. *Points*
by Halskiisaklink on June 14th, 2008
Amazing Answer, A69!!!! *claps and cheers*
by Anonymous on June 16th, 2008
isnt promiscuous a subjective word?
by Wasabi Pea on April 14th, 2009
It is.
by Halskiisaklink on April 15th, 2009
yep. By the way...my name is Phil...
by hoosyadaddy on September 10th, 2009
That's nice. Got a moustache?
by Halskiisaklink on September 10th, 2009
"who wants a moustache ride!?"
by Eneov on September 18th, 2009
You really should find that answer inside yourself. That question has waaay too many implications. On a personal note, I like women who enjoy sex and aren't afraid of acting on that search for pleasure. if your over 18 have fun: Maybe talk with a woman in her 40's to put things in perspective for you., ..... many of the women in that age group I know have regrets for not messin' adound more in their younger days!!!
by vampire on October 14th, 2009
yes.
by Anonymous on October 18th, 2009
No it makes you very reserved, 3 guys a night maybe but not 3 in 14 days, you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince.
by Rabbit on October 21st, 2009
serious vamp? someone has told you that they regret not sleeping around more? I am a 30 year old male and the only reason I do not regret my only sexual partner is because I got my son out of it. thinking having had sex with her makes me feel like I took a swim in a sewage pond... but Jacob was worth it.
by TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT on November 22nd, 2009