I want to have a threesome with my husband and dont know how to go about it. We are both very attractive so didnt think it would be a hard thing to do. I dont want to do it with a friend. How do you go about trying to find a girl to join u

like DJ says, communication. i asked my husband for us to go to the bunny ranch in carson city, NV (or something like that).

The thing is that I suggested it... We had one like 10 years ago with my friend and i lost the friendship... Things were never the same...

This time, we are hiring a professional in a city where there is a license for prostitution and we will be LEGAL.

We are talking about everything. i would not want him to go down on her nor to kiss her in the lips but everything else is fair game... he can do rear entry or whatever. i love him and trust him. We have been together for 17 years... =)

If you want to keep a man happy, get creative. Just make sure you know how much you are willing to allow and how much you can stand...

Personally, i am making all the arrangements and picking the girl for us. I am getting the pricing, etc... when he gets there, he will like the girl because I know what he likes and i am going to get it for him and give it to him.

But talk and think about it a loT!!!! Be sure this is something YOU want to do. I do.

My wife and I have done this several times, and I have a few recommendations, based on lessons we've learned.

Talk to your husband about this at length BEFORE you go for it. Talk it through as thoroughly and completely as you can. Ask a lot of 'what ifs,' and make sure you guys each understand the others wants and expectations.

You should specifically discuss what is "OK" sexually and what is not. For instance, some wives are very upset when they see their husband fuck another girl in the ass, just like some wives get very upset when they see their husband take it in the ass. Know what are each of your 'limits.' Some wives never thought about seeing their husband licking another girl's pussy until it was already happening.

Also, you should discuss what to do if one of you isn't into it for some reason. If you guys hook-up with some girl and one or both of you don't like it, be prepared to signal eachother somehow, otherwise he may disappont you by being really into having sex with her without realizing that you're not pleased, or vice-versa.

Also set ground rules for contact with this person when only one of you is around. What happens if someone you both have sex with shows-up at your house one day when you're not there? Is it OK for your husband to fuck her again, when you're not there? These things happen.

Also be prepared for one of you to want to do it again (with her or with someone else), and for the other to not be into doing it again. This can create conflict.

I would definitely discuss having a man join you before you have sex with a woman. Many women are very upset to learn that their husband won't allow a man to join, after the woman has already allowed a woman to join.

Bottom line is discuss everything. Sex with a third person can be great, but it also brings a lot of factors into play.

As for finding a girl, that's the easy part. Hooking-up with girls is very easy for couples, especially if the wife approaches the girl.

Good luck, and have fun!

Either you frequent "freaky" bars or you put out an ad. Otherwise it's just luck.

Well... i dont think you husband will have a problem having two girls in the bedroom, just go out and say it.

aff.com is a good site to find sex partner.