by jtolb65 on May 17th, 2007
Just tell him that a threesome sounds great but you get to choose which other boy joins in. Then ask him if he's in to "receiving".
I think he'll get over this compulsion fairly quickly.
by Brian I on November 9th, 2007
Tell him you're quite happy to do it provided that the third person is male, because you're 100% straight.
by iwnit on November 9th, 2007
Who said it had to be another girl?
by Denver on December 3rd, 2009
I am straight and thought another girl would be weird. What I learned is that another girl in the bed brings me to an incredible orgasm (she does too) and my guy is equally aroused (but he can only go once!. We do this about 3-4 times a year with aneighbor, who's husband won't join us. Hubby is glad.
by larry9002 on November 18th, 2009
How would you feel about a threesome MMW? How would your bf feel about that?
by Tori2008 on May 23rd, 2008
hey i was 100% straight too lol but my bf asked me to have one with him too. I was iffy and extremely jealous but i knew it would help our relationship because it would show i wasn't jealous. So we did and honestly i liked it. You never know until you try. I always thought it was the grossest thing. But for some reason it wasn't bad at all lol. I wouldn't reccomend this but honestly it's like trying out any other thing for the first time. Just make sure it's a girl you both agree on. I asked one of my friends just because it was more comfortable.
by Miz Zila on February 23rd, 2008
I don't think that you should do it. You are only doing it to make him happy. Think how you are going to feel about this after it happens. Is it worth it? I feel if he really cared about you he wouldn't ask you to do such a thing.
by Ankhorite on November 28th, 2007
Tell him no. You're a woman, a human being, not a sex toy or a circus animal doing tricks for his amusement.
Get away from this guy. If you're not bisexual, you're not, and he should accept that without any pressure for you to "try it once just to see." Bull.
I assume he's not bisexual, right? Do you think he would be willing to have sex with a man for your amusement? To "try it once just to see"?
Or if he's saying you don't have to have sex with her, does he expect you to lie there quietly while he cheats on you in your own bed, right in front of your eyes?
Bah!
by 4747 on August 16th, 2007
Tell him you'll have a threesome with him and another guy. Then he might rethink what he's asking you.
by Catherine on August 6th, 2009
Yes tell him....you won't be able to perfom...Ask him for another guy and you...thats more pleasurable..One man and two woman, will not work out..once he cums its over...
by Catch22 on August 11th, 2009
Tell him you agree to a 3 some but with another guy! See his reaction flip out and then say ... now you now how I feel...your are just putting the shoe on the other foot.
by Larry on August 6th, 2009
Tell him you would love to have a MFM threesome
by lonelydragon on September 14th, 2009
If you're not 100% comfortable, then don't do it. Sex should be a mutually pleasing act, and it can't be when you have doubts. If he is a respectful guy, he will honor your input and not force you into the situation.
by Sandman on September 14th, 2009
Tell him goodbye.
But on the other hand, if "it sounds ok," then you are not 100% straight. You're no less a pervert than he is.
Then on the other hand (Hmmm. I'm running out of hands) if you think it would be weird, you may be nearer to "straight" than he obviously thinks you are.
by Lovely Angel on May 6th, 2009
if you don't fell you really want to do it , then don't do it just to please him. I know you really want to satisfy him , but as a human being you also have the right to say no to something
by Larry on January 28th, 2009
Agree to a MMF Threesome and see what he says then.
by babygurl07 on January 24th, 2009
tell him that you aren't into it. he should respect that - ask him how he'd like it if you were fucking some other guy in front of him & would he still be into it then? personally, i think a relationship is between 2 partners, anything else just degrades it.
by Bigcurt on April 5th, 2009
Never fear trying something that you may enjoy
by prude on April 23rd, 2009
are you sure it is another woman?
he might want another man
by Anonymous on April 24th, 2009
You should tell him you don't like to share. You like to keep him to yourself.
by Goofball on April 23rd, 2009
The three of you should talk it over in depth about your expectations, what you want and don't want to do.Come to a agreement on every aspect then think it over again and if you are comfortable with it go for it. Make sure your birth control is in place and check for S.T.D. Have fun!
by Anonymous on October 27th, 2009
if you lay out a plan where a number of issues are predetermined...I'll play with her for 15 minutes to try it out but I am not gonna be forced into giving her oral..unless I am ready..stuff like that
by BrokeDog on April 21st, 2007
"OTR" and "BG" are right. If you are not comfortable with it, don't do it. Also, it DOES sometimes lead to other things. If you decide to do this for him, do as "Bowling" says. Say, "I'll have a 3-some with ya, but I get to pick the other GUY"! If he starts back-tracking, you will know that he was only thinking about himself. If he says "o.k.", then you will know something about him.
Just don't accept this if you are not comfortable with it. If he loves you, it won't be a problem.
by OverTheRainBow on April 21st, 2007
Don't do anything you are uncomfortable.
by scarlett on April 21st, 2007
tell him if he wants a 3some, it will have to be another guy. i don't know why it is always assumed that it should be two girls and one guy. that seems pretty assbackward to me...and i'm a girl, just for future reference.
by asairel on April 21st, 2007
i think your bf is just making 3some as his "honest cheating" as reason... making love is a sacred thing and meant only for 1 couple consisting of 2 opposite gender..
by scotty2006 on April 21st, 2007
If your 100% straight and believe in 1 man and 1 woman to a relationship then tell him Hell no. Otherwise you may have just learned something about yourself.
by nevets - badgicide on April 21st, 2007
It sounds like he is very lucky to have a partner like you who is so willing to please him.
I am more concerned about you. I think you should hold off until you decide you are 100% comfortable with the idea.
If you decide that its not something you want to do, thats okay, just say no. :-)
by bowlinggreen on April 21st, 2007
Sounds like he gets his ideas from porn. I'm not suprised given the society we live in... This is my advice to you... these things always start with a threesome. Pretty soon, you'll be chained to a refrigerator with a baseball bat up your ass so he can get his jollies. Think over what your values are and stand by them. Or, you can tell him that if he wants a threesome you can bring your friend Leroy over since he just got out of jail and is feeling lonely.
by Volt on April 21st, 2007
This could be the perfect oppotunity to confirm whether you are actually 100% straight or find out you are something else, it's a chance to explore the boundaries. You can still refuse, just think about it.
by rkelvin on November 16th, 2009
you are going to share your bf?... if he is asking you that, it means that he doesnt loves you. my advice.. DON'T DO IT!!!!
by Anonymous on December 5th, 2009
Consider it, maybe try asking your girlfriends for their advice, and then either tell him yes or no. You shouldn't have to do something you are uncomfortable with. You might enjoy it more than you think you will, but you also might enjoy it a lot less than you think you will.
Ask yourself it you're willing to take the risk, make sure you can call it off if you don't like where it's going, make sure you are involved in choosing who the third partner is. If you're too uncertain, say no, because if you do it once and don't want to do it again, he might have a hard time accepting your refusals.
by JUSTNORMAL on April 21st, 2007
A simple NO would suffice. That could be the beginning of a number of negative things, to only destroy your relationship. He wants to be with another woman while you are there? How does THAT make you feel? If you are straight why do anything with her for him? Dont change your values for anyone..
by kiwisoccer on December 7th, 2008
Yeah thats a tough one but since you are str8 and if you are comfortable with him sleeping with another women then tell him you will have a 3some but only on 2 conditions 1)you arent going to get sexual with the other girl and 2)after it you get to have a 3some with another guy
you will be able to tell from his response whether or not if he is still keen
by Catherine on October 28th, 2009
If you do it you run the risk of losing your boyfriend. Once a woman is with a man she will start making other demands on him which may not include you.
by Dustin on November 24th, 2008
tell him yes!
by Kevin Meyerhoff on November 8th, 2007
If he really care about you then y does he want to share. And if he really cares and ur everything to him them y does he want someone else in the picture. To me ur basicly giving him permission to sleep wit another girl, I would consider that cheating
by Penny The Wise on November 8th, 2007
Do not do anything you aren't comfortable doing. If you think you might be interested, learn about it. Ask people who have had a threesome. Find out whatever information you can, including personal experience and feelings, etc. It can be fun, but if anyone isn't comfortable it changes the scene pretty quickly and can change/ruin relationships. If you don't want to do it at all, don't. Otherwise you could start breeding resentment toward your partner and/or toward yourself.
by Dave Post on November 8th, 2007
Tell him alright but it has to be with someone you both agree on.
by Takei-Shihan on November 8th, 2007
... suggest that FIRST, you have a 3way with you, him and another guy, and YOU get to pick the guy ... and pick a mostly gay guy that is only slightly BI ... just watch how his reactions change between the initial "OK" and the final "gay / bi guy" !!!
... but more important, only do what you are comfortable doing ...
by Dennis Schwarz on November 18th, 2007
I do not believe in "an eye for an eye" - it's not about each partner getting "their" wish combination in turn, it's always about just about the current combination and that both partners should be comfortable with it.
That being said - if you're ok with a second girl in general, i see no problem with that. You don't have to do anything with the other girl, just as your bf would not have to do anything to a second guy.
(Though in my personal opinion the girl/girl/guy combination almost asks for 2 bisexual girls, since a good portion of the time one of the girls will not have much to do. It's extremly difficult fur a guy to "take care" of 2 girls at the same time)
by punkgurl24 on November 28th, 2007
i would tell him 2 go do it himself! thats gross!
by Agostwriter on November 28th, 2007
Threesomes for most, are a perfect way to sabatoge a relationship. If you value it, forget it. Good luck!
by maggie_49417 on November 8th, 2007
Tell him you are up for it after you get a 3some with another guy....he'll drop it.
by Tarryn Dierckx on November 8th, 2007
Tell him to piss off!! If you have feelings for him, this isn't a good idea.
No man is worth two woman!
by Dixie1 on May 17th, 2007
If your boyfriend respected you he would not ask such a thing. He wants to have sex with someone else so if he has a 3 some he can have his cake and eat it too. Dump him..
by Anonymous on May 17th, 2007
Just tell him to get Brad Pitt to sign on and you're all in! Until then, just forget it!
by Galeanda on May 17th, 2007
Tell him sure as long as you get first choice of number 3.
by Marrisa on October 25th, 2007
It sounds liek you are curious. try it.
by OrangeThumb on October 25th, 2007
I personally would have trust issues with him after asking this. Seems like he's asking your permission to sleep with other girls. I realize that it's usually because this is what guys fantasize about, but even if the other person is another guy, wouldn't you feel like a whore afterwards? I think I would. What ever makes you happy is what you should do, and the inverse is also true - don't do what would make you uncomfortable.
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by Answerbag Staff on January 28th, 2010
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i suspect my husband is either in love with my sister or is sleeping with her. How can i be certain of either.
by catherine76 on March 12th, 2010
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only for women that like threesomes
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im 20 this guy is 27 he has a baby with a girl he has been with for years we have hooked and im starting to like him am i wasting my time?
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