by Moley the contrary female dragon on November 20th, 2009
It wasnt worth saving. I walked away.29 years and it STILL wasnt ok.
by Finny wears a COAT of Romance on November 20th, 2009
Nothing, it didn't work.
+5
by winkie on November 20th, 2009
An acceptance that both of us were at fault. The relationship is different now (no longer lovers) but we've managed to preserve the friendship.
by Kewl Guy - has gone 360 on November 20th, 2009
a miracle
by OldCW wears The COAT of the Cosmos on November 20th, 2009
My present relationship is just fine, but my last one? It was mercifully euthanized. Hard drugs, behavior problems and smoking in bed and then passing out. (A death wish?) And that was only about the half of it. That girl needed more than I could give her.
by This user is no longer part of AB on November 20th, 2009
alot of prayers, alot of faith, alot of patience, alot of forgiveness, alot of tolerance and alot of counseling.
by brainsick_cow on November 20th, 2009
driving a half hour to and from her place a couple more times a week
it would have been worth it for one reason lol
didnt feel like wasting my time and money for an immature relationship
by Rollie on November 20th, 2009
Giving in at least 60% of the time. (and I actually only gave in 40% in reality)
It's the nature of relationships. The more it is worth to you, the more you will flex.
by Vaporeongirl on November 22nd, 2009
I guess I was never in a "relationship" with Sam in the context most people use the word relationship. But he was my best friend and I cared for him deeply. Nothing saved our relationship; once he started smoking 11+ joints of pot a day, buying 2 gallons of alcohol and became jealous of me and unhappy with his life, there was no saving our relationship. He kicked me out of his life; I wish he hadn't turned to pot and alcohol to resolve his problems.
by Dock on November 20th, 2009
I didn't and thank God, she is a cow now, wild how that happens.+3
Why, in love, do you have but's if's and ums, but still stay in the relationship?
by toot111 on January 24th, 2010
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Why do men control their women..what if the woman is the ony one that works n the man still trys to control the woman
by paulinekireto on February 6th, 2010
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How can I convince my fiancè to avoid his bestfriend (male) who is trying to ruin our relationship?
by violet17 on January 24th, 2010
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What is the most important quality of a person when considering him or her as a potential mate?
by Abraxis on January 28th, 2010
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How popular are internet relationships?
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I'm sorry to hear that Moley. Thanks. +6
by Mountain Momma on November 20th, 2009
how did you do that???? seriously - I have been in mine for 15 years and want to get out, but there is just to much to let go of
by Kewl Guy - has gone 360 on November 20th, 2009
Moley, really? 29 years, that's a long time to commit to something and then give it up. I admire your courage.
by winkie on November 20th, 2009
I just set a date told him. got all the direct debits changed, took my clothes, books and my cat and left a fully furnished paid up house behind. Asked for £10'000 .the house was worth £140'000. Did the divorce myself getting papers from the court.filling them in. he did not contest as I said I would fight for half the house if he did.I had contributed as much as him. all debits were in my name, from my bank.
What I left behind was just stuff.
Stuff is replaceable
by Moley the contrary female dragon on November 20th, 2009
You are a very strong woman Moley.
by Mountain Momma on November 20th, 2009
wow! he must of REALLY pissed you off - big time
by Kewl Guy - has gone 360 on November 20th, 2009
Told him, either things changed or I would go.
They didnt change,
I went
by Moley the contrary female dragon on November 21st, 2009