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I've been cheated on 3 times. I put that down to bad choices. Prob is, as much as i try for it not to, it has made me a little distrusting. I have met this amazing guy, it's early days but i already have doubts... will this ever go?

By Anonymous Asked Nov 7 2009 5:29AM
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by lonelydragon on Nov 7, 2009 at 7:29 am Permalink

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It will, but it will take some time. For now, just take things slow with this guy. Don't get into a serious relationship until you are comfortable and you know he just wants to date you. You probably know the signs of cheating by now, so if he does something shady, you will be able to tell. Good luck! Come back and let us know how it works out!
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Avatar Anonymous Nov, 07 2009 at 08:43 PM
thanks +4

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by RANDOM on Nov 7, 2009 at 5:42 am Permalink

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we all go through that feeling,will it happen again and am i doing the right thing, it maybe that you still have to go out on a limb as if you do not give it a try you may have let the right person go ,sometimes are feelings are to suspicious and because of past history we tend to be hard on people.+4
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Avatar Anonymous Nov, 07 2009 at 05:46 AM
thanks, yeah the signs are looking good really. we text each other through the day (i don't think i've ever text someone so much in my life!) and he's real sweet and love hanging out with him. I guess i just get worried that he's also got other girls that he's stringing along as well. I don't like feeling like an idiot like you do when you realise that you're not the only one around. Thanks for your answer, really helped :-) +4
Avatar RANDOM Nov, 07 2009 at 05:55 AM
follow your instincts ,and you will be o.k take care.

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by In my search of happiness on Nov 7, 2009 at 7:42 am Permalink

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Looks like you are easy to fall in love and give your heart completely. From now on take things slowly, if he's for you he will be yours. Don't rush SEX he might think you are too easy that he will not respect you so much. Be yourself, Love yourself, gain self esteem a man well see that in you. They will respect and love you back.
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by The One on Nov 7, 2009 at 6:40 am Permalink

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you just havent found the right guy yet
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by jls on Nov 7, 2009 at 5:33 am Permalink

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You know in the early stages of my relationships, I would tell the girl, if she ever wants to leave just leave their will be no drama or begging just don't cheat then give me the casual blow off. And they still cheated and did the casual blow off. It's just a risk you have to take that will eventaully pay off. Just look for the signs.
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