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by jesspants on November 3rd, 2009

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I am keeping a pretty big secret and I'm feeling very stressed. I will explain this in an answer cos it's hard to sum up

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  • by Emmi331 on November 3rd, 2009

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    What does your "gut" tell you to do? It rarely leads you wrong.
    Sometimes it's hard to do the right thing in the face of others who have NOT done the right thing and will be angry. Honestly, I'm shocked that his family said nothing to your ex., especially if this is a life-threatening condition.
    Do you have any clue as to why they withheld this information?
    Please keep us posted.

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    • the great aunty is keeping it secret cos she is respecting her sisters wishes not to let her son know(my little boys dad) If she does tell she fears it will damage the relationship between my sons dad and his mother because she knew this and didn't tell him and he is already estranged from his father so he will have no-one to turn to (he is only 21) Also everyone will stop talking to my great aunty because they have asked her not to have anything to do with me since I am such a "horrible person" for having my son against his dads wishes.

      This condition can be life threatening if it is not monitored, however some carriers of the gene never become ill at all. Thats what makes it difficult but I guess you have to consider the worse case scenario when making a decision like this cos you never really know. I think my gut says to wait for my sons tests results that I will get in a few months

      jesspants

      by jesspants on November 3rd, 2009

    • Good for you, and I wish you all the best. And that aunty and her sister did your child's father a disservice, IMHO.

      Emmi331

      by Emmi331 on November 5th, 2009

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